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They Had Great Text by Katie Reese

They Had Great Text by Katie Reese

“Hello? at home. drunk” said the text message I finally received at 9 p.m. I thought, What did I do wrong to turn this hopeful young relationship into late-night booty texts? Through many protracted therapy sessions ...

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Can’t Do This by Aaron Taylor

Can’t Do This by Aaron Taylor

She was breaking up with me for something that was not my fault, punishing me for something for which I had no control: a tragedy, an act of God. She had had a miscarriage. The ...

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Fat George, Dramatic Sarah by Karen Daley

Fat George, Dramatic Sarah by Karen Daley

There are women out there who seem to really understand how dating works. They meet guys everywhere and go out all the time. When you ask them what they did over the weekend, they say, ...

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Mr. Pouty-Pants by Jennifer Herring

Mr. Pouty-Pants by Jennifer Herring

You almost kind of expect to have some bad dates in your twenties. I’ve had my share: Still Living at Home Guy, Always on His ... More Comment (1)

The Cats Stay by David Hawthorne

The Cats Stay by David Hawthorne

She sent me an email from work: “I’m bringing some friends over to help me move my stuff out at 6 o’clock. It’ll take a ... More Comment (1)

Run, City Girl by Jane Hanson

Run, City Girl by Jane Hanson

Worst break up ever? In the late ’80s I lived in a basement apartment in San Francisco a block off Haight Street. I was in ... More Comments (2)

Thanks to Jack by Jordan Keith

Thanks to Jack by Jordan Keith

It was one of my favorite events of the year: the Brazil Carnaval at 4th&B. She and I had just met, but we danced the ... More Comments (2)

Red Flags by Janis Rachels

Red Flags by Janis Rachels

I think there’s a particular kind of relationship — specific to each person — that you must endure before you find the one that you ... More Comments (2)

Hip-Hopping on the Moon by Kara Myers

Hip-Hopping on the Moon by Kara Myers

He was gorgeous. Kristen and I sat on the lawn at Orange Glen High School, watching Chris walk by on his way to the cafeteria. ... More Post a comment

From England with Love by Heather Lee

From England with Love by Heather Lee

I had just seen the movie Across the Universe about an English guy who falls in love with an American girl. It brought back all ... More Post a comment

Better Than Nothing by Jessica Mac

Better Than Nothing by Jessica Mac

I met Paul online, and it wasn’t long before we were talking on the phone, engaging in the most introspective, enlightening, and enjoyable conversations I’ve ... More Comments (2)

College Cut-Up by Carrie Duffy

College Cut-Up by Carrie Duffy

I was in my sophomore year of college, and I’d never had a boyfriend. Not because I wasn’t interested but because I’d been too busy ... More Comment (1)

A Mite Bitter by Andrew Toskin

A Mite Bitter by Andrew Toskin

She was like a statue: beautiful and cold. She had dyed her hair so many times that I doubted that she could remember what the ... More Comments (2)

Ex Factor by Annah Mason

Ex Factor by Annah Mason

We’ve all done it. It doesn’t matter how confident you are, how secure, how much you wear self-love on your sleeve for all to see ... More Comment (1)

Rear-View Mirror by Daryl Scott

Rear-View Mirror by Daryl Scott

Her ass looked big in the jeans. That’s why I left her. Ten years ago I wasn’t 30 pounds overweight, and I didn’t drink, not ... More Comments (2)

That Feeling by Lauren Hakala

That Feeling by Lauren Hakala

When it comes right down to it, I think I’m too young to have any sort of real concept of true love — the kind ... More Post a comment

Five Kinds of Love by Kristen Thomas

Five Kinds of Love by Kristen Thomas

It must have been in Cosmo that I once read "The Top Five Relationships Every Woman Should Have Before She Gets Married." Most of us ... More Post a comment

We Like Attitude by Danielle Hughes

We Like Attitude by Danielle Hughes

I was in ninth grade. So was Tony, my first boyfriend. Tony was sweet, handsome, popular, and absolutely smitten with me. A girl's dream. I'll ... More Post a comment

Peanut Butter Chaser by Robert Kirby

Peanut Butter Chaser by Robert Kirby

I once heard an analogy that being in a bad relationship is like owning a bad car. The more time, money, and energy you put ... More Comment (1)

Wednesdays by Amy Joyce

Wednesdays by Amy Joyce

"The Wednesday Wonder" -- that's what my roommate called this guy whom I was seeing. This is before the term "friends with benefits." But we ... More Post a comment

Transition Girlfriend by Jennifer Cooke

Transition Girlfriend by Jennifer Cooke

The first time I ran a personal ad, this is what it said: "21, Cal Berkeley student, brown/brown, seeks tattooed proletarian man age 21-31. Ideally, ... More Comment (1)

Space It Out by Erin Harris

Space It Out by Erin Harris

I met Todd five years ago in Tampa, Florida. We were servers together at Bella's restaurant. Todd was so charming, energetic, and fun that I ... More Comment (1)

Don't Dis My Bra by Amber Chafin

Don't Dis My Bra by Amber Chafin

A few years ago I got back from a birthday weekend in Vegas feeling pretty lucky, so I gave this guy I knew a call. ... More Post a comment

Bro and Jessica Do P.B. by Jessica Clarke

Bro and Jessica Do P.B. by Jessica Clarke

I had just moved to San Diego, and there was a 7-Eleven down the street from my new apartment. I decided, "What the hell, I'll ... More Post a comment

Unfixable by Rachel Burnett

Unfixable by Rachel Burnett

I knew from our first phone call that Jim was a self-centered, self-absorbed, man-sized boy. We met via the Internet. I was newly out of ... More Post a comment

1-4-3, CM BAK 2 ME by Megan Tyler

1-4-3, CM BAK 2 ME by Megan Tyler

It's funny how when you're young you think everything is forever and every guy you date is the one. That's the mistake I made with ... More Post a comment

Do What You Gotta Do by Sara Wilcox

Do What You Gotta Do by Sara Wilcox

Okay, here's a bad date: I met this guy at a frat party right when I moved to Philadelphia for college. As in, right when ... More Post a comment

Should Have Seen This Coming by Cynthia Mason

Should Have Seen This Coming by Cynthia Mason

When I was 19, I had a friend who worked as a bartender. On certain nights the bar was without a bouncer, so off my ... More Post a comment

Psychoanalysis and Gum by Mark Bonet

Psychoanalysis and Gum by Mark Bonet

About seven years ago I went on a date with a rather odd woman (we'll call her Allie). She possessed two bachelor's degrees and was ... More Post a comment

The Honest Guy by Sally Hall

The Honest Guy by Sally Hall

Within five minutes of meeting Stan (not his real name), I was head over heels for him. He was ten years my senior and had ... More Post a comment

The Things We Do for Love by Elisa Delgado

The Things We Do for Love by Elisa Delgado

Hey, my name is Elisa, and I was dumped about a month and a half ago. Here's the scoop. One day I came home from ... More Post a comment

The Champagne Flute Might Be Plastic by Diane Oakley

I should have known anyone calling himself Alexander the Great might be a narcissistic psycho maniac or the proverbial wolf in sheep's clothing. Heed the ... More Post a comment

Gorgeous Flirt by Jay Daniels

It was the summer before my second year at the University of Arizona when I learned that Christine was graduating Coronado High School and was ... More Post a comment

Love Train by Lindsay Perry

Let me first just say that I have dated a lot of different kinds of men, and some of my worst dates have been with ... More Post a comment

Walk On By by Marquita Acron

What I remember most about him were the sweet murmurs of love he would whisper in my ear while we sat and held hands in ... More Post a comment

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